Category Archives: Strengths

What I Realized about Strengths and Passion On My Bike on the Way to the Library

As I made the turn out of Old State Road onto Route 2 on my bike, a backpack stuffed with books, CDs and DVDs to return to the library I felt a connection to a time far back in my life. Positive Psychology tells us that what we are good at (strengths) and what we [...]
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Jazz Guitarist Bill Frisell on Your Unique Voice

“Trying to find my own voice…I’m not even sure if I know if I have it or not. It’s something I’ve thought about, something that’s so important. I mean I think every human has their own voice and so every musician should, or has to find it…. All my musical heroes: Thelonious Monk or Sonny [...]
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Jazz Guitarist Bill Frisell on How Complexity is Trumped By What You Bring

“I used to equate complexity with better music. How could you say that Segovia is more advanced than Robert Johnson or Jimi Hendrix or Wes Montgomery? … for me there’s no higher or lower… it just depends what you can bring to it or what your imagination can come up with.” - Bill Frisell (From [...]
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How did a young Bill Clinton aim his strengths to go from good to great?

I’ve been watching Elvis Costello’s TV show Spectacle. He conducts in-depth interviews with different famous musicians and famous people related to music. He also performs. Each interview I’ve watched so far reminds me of at least one strengths-based principle. In the Bill Clinton interview, Clinton talked about a key moment as a teenager when he [...]
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What strategy did Elton John use to be so successful with his strengths?

I’ve been watching Elvis Costello’s TV show Spectacle. He conducts in-depth interviews with different famous musicians and famous people related to music. He also performs. Each interview I’ve watched so far reminds me of at least one strengths-based principle. In the Elton John interview, he talked about his collaboration with his songwriting partner Bernie Taupin. The [...]
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Taking a chainsaw to the best show on television – rethinking The Wire

“We tried to say something with each of the characters. we tried to say something with the story as a whole. I think we tried not to repeat ourselves, which is not easy. There’s a lot of impulse that says, ‘do what you’ve done before’ and what’s worked. A lot of TV shows are like [...]
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Is it better to be a first-rate Gershwin or a second-rate Ravel?

Ravel knew the answer to that question. When the great composer George Gershwin approached French composer Maurice Ravel for lessons, Ravel turned him down, saying that it was more important to be a first-rate Gershwin than a second-rate Ravel. We all have our heroes, and wish we were like someone  that appears to be more [...]
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How Do You Know When You’re in Your Ideal Work Rhythm (and When You’re Not)?

Here’s the last part (for now) in my little series on ideal work rhythm, a topic in Quixote Consulting’s Resiliency training. It’s helpful to notice what it’s like when you’re in your ideal work rhythm. Here’s what mine feels like: Relaxed excitement, a sense of spaciousness around the task, focus, time feels eternal (in a [...]
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What Music Supports Your Ideal Rhythm in a Work Day? Here’s What I Listen To

I listen to music most of the time I’m awake. And when I’m not listening to music I’m probably playing music myself. It’s my passion, and aids me in doing the work I consider important in a day. Every day is different, but I notice themes of music that help me. Here’s what I listen [...]
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What’s Your Ideal Rhythm for a Work Day? Here’s Mine

I recently wrote a post summarizing research about your body’s best time to do everything in a day. It’s interesting to notice how much my own ideal work rhythm coincides with the human average. These times are approximate, but they also can happily be approximately repeated day after day if life allows. Often, life doesn’t [...]
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