Finding the Words (A Quest Story by Lou Manzi)

LouMI love being able to divide my time among performing as a guitarist/singer, teaching music to people of all ages, and facilitating Quixote Consulting’s musical programs. I’ve always known that music can enrich our lives and touch us deeply. I was reminded of this at a recent performance.

I often drop into a rehabilitation facility/nursing home in my home town of Stonington, Connecticut. While there, I stroll around with my guitar and pop into different rooms to sing to the residents. It’s an informal sing-a-long as I visit one person after another. And the chatting we do about our families and interests is as important as the music.

During a recent visit, I sang some Johnny Cash songs in the dining room as the residents were eating. As usual, most of the residents were sitting with other residents or aides. One woman was sitting with her daughter and I noticed that they both were enjoying the music. The daughter was singing along with some of the songs and although the mother was looking at me, and looked interested, she was silent.

After a few more country tunes, I decided to move into some 70s rock and roll, beginning with Jim Croce’s Bad, Bad Leroy Brown. I noticed that the daughter was singing along and, suddenly, the mother started singing also. The daughter actually started crying. I was quite curious since I’ve never had anyone cry when I played Bad, Bad Leroy Brown. I know it doesn’t turn out good for Leroy at the end of the song, but it’s never brought anyone to tears. After the song, I spoke to the daughter and found out that her tears were tears of happiness. Like many who suffer with Alzheimer’s or some form of dementia, her mom had stopped speaking quite awhile ago. Yet the joy of sharing the music with all of the others in the dining room gave her the power to not just speak a few words, but to sing along with a song she remembered from her past.

For me, it was a truly special moment and again showed me the power of music in our lives

Lou Manzi heads up Quixote Consulting’s music teambuilding programs as well as many of our other high-energy offerings. Since 1984, he has led dynamic and successful programs for corporations such as IBM, Exxon-Mobil, and Jones New York. While a consultant for the Boys and Girls Club of America, Lou was a keynote speaker at their national convention in Las Vegas and designed extensive parts of their music curriculum. Lou especially enjoys leading Quixote Consulting’s Play the Blues harmonica music team building and Sing the Blues music team building events and any program where people are ready to have some fun.

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