Monthly Archives: June 2012

I know change starts with me because…

…on a recent flight I noticed something odd. The flight attendants were collecting cans, bottles and newspaper separately. One of them cheerily noted, “we recycle!” on the loudspeaker. This is a new thing for them. It’s 2012. How long have you been recycling? I started somewhere around the late eighties/early 90s, when everyone else I [...]
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What do you do when you lose? Here’s what the Thunder did

When you win, when you succeed, it’s easy to do all the right things as a team. It’s when you lose you find out how team members act. It’s not in our best moments we’re measured, but in our lowest ones. The Oklahoma City Thunder just lost the NBA Finals to the Miami Heat. Here’s [...]
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“may my heart always be open to little birds” – an e.e. cummings Pocket Poem

(Here’s a photo of baby phoebes in their nest above a window on the garage) may my heart always be open to little birds who are the secrets of living whatever they sing is better than to know and if men should not hear them men are old may my mind stroll about hungry and [...]
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William Faulkner on the basest of all things and a privilege

Here are two excerpts from William Faulkner’s Nobel Prize Acceptance Speech 1950 that I found inspiring. I particularly like when great people talk about fear, something that is perhaps the biggest block to us being at our best. I hope his words inspire you as well today. On the basest of all things He must [...]
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Two stickies to make the meaningless meaningful

These days I have a sticky note on each of my two To Do lists (one is for work and one is for music). Lost most people, I can get lost in the weeds and the larger picture can escape me when trying to accomplish tasks on my To Do list. The day can default [...]
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“Just One of the People” RIP Doc Watson

Arthel ‘Doc’ Watson died recently. Born in 1923 in the mountains of North Carolina, he was known for his virtuosic guitar picking of traditional music and for a depth of character and warmth. I’m especially interested in these personal characteristics that came through in his music. Expressing our inner strengths is available to anyone, no [...]
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You can be the largest or the most agile, not both (Strengths, You Can’t Have Them All)

At the beginning of a United flight to O’Hare they started with a commercial with their CEO talking. He said, “We have the largest network in the world. Because we’re so large we can be agile.” Wrong. You can have one or the other – largest or most agile, not both. Larger doesn’t make more [...]
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Teddy Bears to the Rescue – Build a Bear Charity Team Building

The Game The Teddy Bears to the Rescue charity team building activity is an incredible and uplifting charity team building experience with an opportunity for everyone to shine. This gently competitive event is chock full of fun activities that culminate in the creation of snuggly teddy bears that will find a home in the arms [...]
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What do Don Draper and Nucky Thompson have in common?

What do Don Draper, the main character of Mad Men and Nucky Thompson the main character of Boardwalk Empire have in common? They both have creators that think of them as truly alive. I watched episodes of both Mad Men and Boardwalk Empire recently with the writer commentary on. I noticed an interesting parallel. They both [...]
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“Be joyful because it is humanly possible.”

Here are two quotes from poet farmer Wendell Berry on the subject of joy. He doesn’t take this subject lightly and lets joy sit in the same seat as rueful life experience. There’s a heft to these quotes that make them useful to me and hopefully to you today as well. “Expect the end of [...]
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