Monthly Archives: November 2010

How can pine needles help you persist?

Every morning walk I let one particular thing be noticed. This morning it was pine needles. I live in an area full of white pine. Our property is mostly white pine and red oak. I enjoy the white pines – to me the softest and brightest of the pines – and their soft needles that [...]
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What Flowers in November for you?

On my morning walk, the air grey and moist, the woods grey and bare, yellow pompoms of confetti on the witch hazel shrubs among the pine trees caught my eye. What’s going on? This is November! Is something seriously wrong with the woods? Is this global warming? Why is this bush blooming now while everything [...]
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This morning, in all its fleeting, eternal glory

This morning just after dawn, as I was bringing wood in for the stove, I noticed a thin skin of ice in the standing water in the tomato planter on the porch. The sunlight hitting it revealed a large crystal webbed design, as if a snowflake had been magnified a thousand times – beautiful! An [...]
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Try a Gratitude Moment this Thanksgiving

“We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.” ~Thornton Wilder Let’s take a moment to return to what is in the word Thanksgiving – giving thanks. Gratitude is one of the key ingredients for happiness according to positive psychology research. I can back that [...]
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What Nelson Mandela wants you to never forget

“Never forget that a saint is a sinner who keeps on trying.” -Nelson Mandela Keep trying. That’s all you need to do, keep trying. Persistence = your passion applied over time. Keep trying. Here’s a larger fragment that this quote is from below. Mandela also encourages you to meditate 15 minutes a day. Perhaps that [...]
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Ritual Trumps Self-Discipline – Here’s why

Raise your hand if this is true for you: Have you ever made any New Years resolutions? Have you kept all of your resolutions? Okay, hands down. Wait, I didn’t see any hands up. Okay, new question. Have you brushed your teeth today? I’ll bet you have! There is one big reason why in the [...]
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The story of the chocolate chip cookies and the beets: Why You Have Less Self-Discipline Than You Thought

Research subjects were brought into a waiting room with a chair to sit in and a plate piled high with hot, freshly baked cookies. They were told that the experiment was running a little late, to sit down and wait and please don’t touch the cookies, they’re for a different experiment. Ten minutes later, they [...]
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Rilke, nature and faith (from my first day of change)

Here’s what came to me on my first of my forty days of change. A walk in the woods on a cold, sunny morning brought out the same word I noticed twice while reading my favorite autumn poet, Rainer Maria Rilke’s poems last night. That word is faith. Rilke trusted the falling that autumn brings [...]
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My evening ritual for Forty Nights to Change

For my Forty Days of Change I’m practicing both a morning and an evening ritual. Here’s my evening ritual. Feel free to take any ideas you like, or add your own ritual in the comments section. I don’t share this to put pressure on you to also have an evening ritual, but for me it’s [...]
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My Morning ritual – Forty Mornings to Change

For my Forty Days of Change I’m practicing both a morning and an evening ritual. Here’s my morning ritual. Feel free to take any ideas you like, or add your own ritual in the comments section. Tomorrow I’ll share my evening ritual. My Morning Ritual (or What I Love’s In Need of Love Today) I’ve [...]
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