Monthly Archives: May 2010

Taking it all in – in praise of savoring

The next time you’re enjoying a nice dessert, or someone smiling, or a moment with your cat, or the way the sun hits a tree, try pausing for a moment. If you slow up during something pleasurable, you come face to face with it, and expand your capacity for happiness, to take in the goodness [...]
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Slow Beauty

“In beauty may I walk…” – Navajo chant Here are some tips to help you slow down through beauty from  Quixote Consulting‘s Resiliency: Five Keys to Success corporate training program. Think of where you drive the fastest and where you drive (voluntarily) slowest. When we drive on tree-lined streets we slow down. Beauty engages us [...]
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Mindless is okay too

Sitting quietly, doing nothing, spring comes, and the grass grows by itself. ~ Zen Proverb If you’ve been reading my recent posts about mindfulness from Quixote Consulting‘s Resiliency: Five Keys to Success corporate training program, you’ve noticed that I’m standing up in favor of mindfully moving through what you do already. Today I’ll stand up for mindlessness. [...]
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Pick Your Pleasures on Purpose

In Quixote Consulting‘s Resiliency: Five Keys to Success corporate training program I invite people to focus on play by picking their pleasures on purpose. This increases happiness levels. What does that mean? Read on! You may have noticed the difference in your level of enjoyment between ordering something on Netflix and channel-surfing (what my friend [...]
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The 80/20 principle and the 20/80 principle

In Quixote Consulting‘s Resiliency: Five Keys to Success corporate training program I invite people to leverage the 80/20 principle. What does that mean? Read on! Have you heard of the 80/20 principle? It states that only 20% of what we do takes care of 80% of the work. Research shows this to be true again [...]
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The Power of the Positive No

I love to read and mention a lot of books in Quixote Consulting‘s training programs that people might like to check out. The title that most people get excited is one by William Ury. It’s called The Power of a Positive No. Why? I think it’s because they realize how much nicer their life would [...]
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Nothing to fear…but fear itself?

“Let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is fear itself.” Franklin Delano Roosevelt It’s not easy breaking through habitual patterns. Especially in the beginning it can in fact be quite challenging as fears rise up. But, you’re better and bigger than your fears and in fact you can [...]
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Life in the Slow Lane

In Quixote Consulting‘s Resiliency: Five Keys to Success corporate training program and Green Team Quest I invite people to try out the slow lane. What does that mean? Read on! “Life in the fast lane, surely make you lose your mind.” – The Eagles The German poet Rainer Maria Rilke wrote, “I live my life [...]
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Mindful or mindless – how do you want your day?

In Quixote Consulting‘s Resiliency: Five Keys to Success corporate training program I invite people to practice doing things mindfully. What does that mean? Read on! Mindful vs. Mindless – What’s the difference? “Mindfulness begins with the observation that mindlessness pervades much of human activity. We fail to notice huge swaths of experience. We act and [...]
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Why Slowing Up Lets You Persist

In Quixote Consulting‘s Resiliency: Five Keys to Success corporate training program I invite people to try on a concept I call ‘slowing up. What does that mean? Read on! What speed you live your life is a choice. It’s important to remember that. The world may seem to be getting faster and faster, with the [...]
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