Monthly Archives: February 2010

Ten Tips for Singing Your First Karaoke Song

Whenever I lead one of our music team building programs like Play the Blues, Rock Band Inc., Guitar Heroes or Sing the Blues someone always come up to me after the program and excitedly tells me they had always dreamed of singing in front of a group of people, but were too scared or didn’t [...]
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“Life is Too Short to Be Safe and Sad” – If You’re Scared to Make a Change

Life is Too Short to Be Safe and Sad: Darien Fleming’s advice for people scared to make a change Think you need all that money? – “You just don’t need that stuff” When I look at lawyers and friends and I know how miserable they are I know most of the reason they’re staying is [...]
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Seven Helpful Hints for Happiness Right Now Regardless of Your Situation

Hate the project you’re working on? Is your boss driving you crazy? Stuck in a job you can’t stand and can’t leave? In Change Quest we often talk about the difficulties around making a change and how much time change truly takes to happen. If you’re not ready or able to leave something you can’t [...]
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Children and Animals – Two Paths to Purpose

To harness the power of purpose in your life, you must have some larger purpose that you are living and working for than just yourself. If you have kids or animals in your life, you’re in luck – these are two paths to purpose. Purpose allows you to tap into the rich happiness of getting [...]
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Darien Fleming’s Courage to Change and Live Her Passion

As a young Boston lawyer in estate planning with a promising high-powered career ahead of her, Darien Fleming seemed to be poised for professional success. But something wasn’t right, and her body let her know about it. She passed out in her office from dizziness and couldn’t sit up in bed for a week. She [...]
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Quix Tip – Taking a Deep Rest

“One of winter’s gifts is the reminder that times of dormancy and deep rest are essential to all living things.”- Parker Palmer Trusting that deep rest is essential is quite challenging for me and the people I talk with. Join with me in being mentored by the season, by the trees, by nature. Pause sometime [...]
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Keep Your Dreams Cold

No orchard’s the worse for the wintriest storm; But one thing about it, it mustn’t get warm. “How often already you’ve had to be told, Keep cold, young orchard. Good-bye and keep cold. Dread fifty above more than fifty below.” -from Goodbye and Keep Cold by Robert Frost What does Robert Frost mean when he [...]
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If You Don’t Rest You Don’t Grow

“What we do here in the gym is only a third of what’s important. You have to eat right…and rest. If you don’t rest, you don’t grow. All of our growth happens when we’re not training.” -Patrick Monroe, personal trainer, helped actor Tom Hardy gain over 30 pounds of muscle in five weeks for his [...]
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Five ways to transform tasks from ‘tedious and boring’ to ‘fun and interesting’

I recently posted an article called Winston Churchill Was a Bricklayer. Kevin left a great question in the comments, “The tough part about laying bricks is that it can get pretty damn tedious and boring. How do you recommend working through that?” Here are a few things that help me when anything gets tedious: Slow [...]
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What if 70% of what shapes your experience is sound?

“Sound is 70% of a film experience. You need it.” – Danny Boyle, director of Slumdog Millionaire Try it, next time you watch a movie. Try closing your eyes for a little while. How much of your emotional and intellectual experience is guided by what you are hearing? Try putting the sound down in a [...]
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